16 ways I blew my marriage - stop and read. This is a humorous, thought-provoking article that as a marriage counselor I actually do agree with. It is secular, with no claims of biblical advice, but also incredibly practical.
An old fashioned soda bar actually sounds so fun to me! Cream soda, ginger beer, victorian lemonade, dandelion and burdock, all sorts of things. They're so much more fun out of an old fashioned bottle than a soda dispenser.