My step children are adults and we get along wonderfully. I thank God I was taught by my bonus parents that you never disrespect the biological parent and I will alway live by that rule! I know it took both parents to make them the loving, kind and respectful adults they are today.
I'm so lucky to love and be loved by my future bonus kids. We have such a great relationship and I'm blessed to be apart of their lives. Part of being a blended family is co-parenting, and where I don't have much of relationship with their mom- I hope one day I will, for their sakes