"Relationships are like a forged blade. At first, the fire burns red-hot, and everyone around can see and feel the heat. People are envious of that heat, but the truth is, a blade must be cooled and tempered to reach its full strength."
I include medical tests and minor procedures in number 1 too!! It is vital that all of you is ready for things like that!!! I find its better to wait a month or two if it feels wrong at the time. V)O(M