Highlights: 1. You will set the tone for the sexual relationship, so don't take something away from her that you can't give back. 9. Treat women kindly. Forever is a long time to live alone and it's even longer to live with somebody who hates your guts. 11. Be strong and tender at the same time. 16. Bringing her flowers for no reason is always a good idea. 17. Be patriotic.