When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn't healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits - anything that kept me small. My judgement called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving
I dont want you to have to save me. I want you to stand by my side as I save myself. I want this as a tattoo, except I'd change the words to, "I dont want you to save me, I want you to stay beside me as I save myself.