If you are inviting kids. I like these ideas: -A kid drink for the toast (like cookies and milk) -Activity sheets/placemats/crayons -Legos/playdoh -Hire "babysitter" like a 13 yr old cousin -Kids open candy/snack bar
Backyard or garden wedding for Jess. Buy straw hay bales at Tractor Supply stores and cover them with quilts or blankets to make a super-comfy lounge seating area at your wedding! Get more Rustic Wedding ideas .