That is so true for my parents, my mother especially. Playing the victim card is essentially playing to someone’s guilt. The number of times she exclaimed: it must me horrible to be my daughter! Of course my sisters or I would immediately give in on whatever the argument was, and assure her she was a wonderful mother. Toxic people like narcissists and sociopath use emotional blackmail and manipulation to control their targets.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best. For more quotes and inspirations: http://www.lifehack.org/289857/sometimes-the-best-thing-you-can-not-think?ref=ppt10