I do not entirely agree with this. Although in general life might not get easier what does get easier is how we handle life. Acquire life skills and you will find that problems are dealt with quicker and more effectively. This makes you stronger.
Oscar Wilde quote | I know who I am. I know what I like and what I really really dislike. But there are times that I don't understand myself, & I even question myself about the way I think and feel about things. I ask myself if "Am I loud or quiet?"
my life at this very moment is the epitome of uncertainty, and I absolutely love it. When people around you don't understand uncertainty, there is nothing you can do to help them or explain, one just has to trust in the uncertainty
Your struggle is not you any more than a hill is you when running or weights at the gym when lifting. It's there to shape you with the needed challenge, not engulf your identity. The faster you learn this in life, the more you will recognize the real you.