Wow, I wish my mom had used these guidelines when raising me! Instead throughout my childhood and teenage years she tried her best to turn someone who was happy as in introvert into an extrovert. The result was being in constant anxiety and misery. At least I know to respect my children (when I have them), whether they are an introvert like me, or an extrovert like their Daddy. ♥
Should something happen to you or me, our families wouldn't care about perfection. What they'd search the entire house for is anything that sounds like us and reflects our unique filter. What they'd want is a keepsake that keeps our memory alive as accurately and poignantly as possible.