Can I tell you a secret? She didn't want you to make her work for it. She just wanted someone else. Your entire strategy was based on what you were told by a chick who was too weak to just let you know that she wanted someone else. Sigh.
So true!!!. Put down the phone...look around. You have only one life, do you want to look back and realize how much time you spent looking down at a device. Look around, grab life, breathe deeply, be present in your life and surroundings.