Kelly Fitzgerald

Kelly Fitzgerald

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Cape Coral, Florida / Philly native living the sober life in Florida. I write about everything I experience on the Sober Señorita. Cancun is my 2nd home.
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"With empathic intuition, the issue usually isn't about feeling other people's energy. It's more about how to hold boundaries, how to differentiate your energy from somebody else's and how to hold your own energetic center." - Wendy De Rosa   #inspiration #InspirationalQuotes #motivationalquotes http://theshiftnetwork.com/?utm_source=pinterest&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=quote

"With empathic intuition, the issue usually isn't about feeling other people's energy. It's more about how to hold boundaries, how to differentiate your energy from somebody else's and how to hold your own energetic center." - Wendy De Rosa #inspiration #InspirationalQuotes #motivationalquotes http://theshiftnetwork.com/?utm_source=pinterest&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=quote

Finding the balance between overly rigid (apathy/loves too little)-and overly flexible  (pushover/loves too much)

Finding the balance between overly rigid (apathy/loves too little)-and overly flexible (pushover/loves too much)

Too often we equate control with desire and jealousy with attention. We spend the entirety our modern-day relationships in a controlled state such as only communicating via text and forming a whole persona online via social media. A real life relationship shows up on Sundays when its raining outside and theres nothing else to do but be alone together. Because when love is healthy people show up as they are regardless of the weather. They may be in a bad mood or anxious or excited but they…

Too often we equate control with desire and jealousy with attention. We spend the entirety our modern-day relationships in a controlled state such as only communicating via text and forming a whole persona online via social media. A real life relationship shows up on Sundays when its raining outside and theres nothing else to do but be alone together. Because when love is healthy people show up as they are regardless of the weather. They may be in a bad mood or anxious or excited but they…

Some of us are far too comfortable with dysfunction from an early age. We grew up in homes infused with anger or control we suffered abuse or witnessed addiction or perhaps we grew up having to earn our worth and overachieve to feel good enough. Whatever the case over time we can become desensitized to the decay surrounding us. As they say ask a fish how the water is and the fish will reply whats water? We become comfortable with our normal despite the fact that something being defined as…

Some of us are far too comfortable with dysfunction from an early age. We grew up in homes infused with anger or control we suffered abuse or witnessed addiction or perhaps we grew up having to earn our worth and overachieve to feel good enough. Whatever the case over time we can become desensitized to the decay surrounding us. As they say ask a fish how the water is and the fish will reply whats water? We become comfortable with our normal despite the fact that something being defined as…

When we know were worth loving we dont waste our time chasing complicated people who can never love us right. We respect ourselves enough to move on and move forward. We know what love looks like and we know what it doesnt. We know we deserve more and would rather be alone than in a quasi-relationship thats not meeting our needs. Sure being vulnerable with someone is scary but its the only way that healthy love is achievable and sustainable. We can be afraid to get hurt but we must not let…

When we know were worth loving we dont waste our time chasing complicated people who can never love us right. We respect ourselves enough to move on and move forward. We know what love looks like and we know what it doesnt. We know we deserve more and would rather be alone than in a quasi-relationship thats not meeting our needs. Sure being vulnerable with someone is scary but its the only way that healthy love is achievable and sustainable. We can be afraid to get hurt but we must not let…