"My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts," says The Lord. "And My ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so My ways are higher than your ways and My thoughts higher than your thoughts." Is.
Selfishness controls most, even me. For God to change all it takes is me giving the wheel back to God, and trust that he knows where he is going. That he will still be there when I need him, and then I will start looking at others before I look at myself