Go to a thrift store and find the worst bridesmaids dress you can find. Then play paintball for a combined bachelorette and bachelor party.I just like the idea of going out in the worst bridesmaid dress!
It's not super rustic and I don't know about the bow/flower thingy. But the idea for a card holder is good. You could use a galvanized bucket with a chalkboard or something. I think I pinned something like that for you. - Decor It Darling
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