I do this and all the guys I've collided with have stared at me and muttered mean things under their breath directed towards me as if it was my fault they simply didn't move out of the way and it was //my// job to do so.
Instead of saying "act like a lady," say "be polite and respectful" because not only women should do these things. Instead of saying "man up," say "have courage and stay strong" because not only men should do these things.
Basically, what's good for the gander is good for the goose. If men can film porn and not have their entire gender brushed off over it, then women can film porn and not have their entire gender brushed off over it.