Yeah! After all God put kids here to be what HE wants them to be even if abilities are different from parents & rest of family or what they hoped to be. God didn't give kids to be what parents long to be and/or live out THEIR dreams for them. Accept them for what they are and encourage their abilities even if it doesn't appeal to you.
"BATTLES ARE FOUGHT IN OUR MINDS EVERY DAY. When we begin to feel the battle is just too difficult and want to give up... We must decide that we're not going to quit... TAKE A STAND AND SAY, "I'll never give up! God's on my side. He loves me, and He's helping me! I'm going to make it!" ~ Joyce Meyer