Some times things are said that hurt. They may not have made any difference to you, but they do to the person you spoke them to. This can also work the other way. Encouraging words can stick with someone as well. Choose your words wisely
When I saw this I thought of Syndrome from Incredibles. I thinking along the lines of, so you would marry Syndrome? Like, didn't he die? Why would this be a relatable thing people would pin? Anyway, I thought that was funny.