"The sexiest thing in the entire world is being really smart, and being thoughtful, and being generous. Everything is crap, I promise you. It's just crap that people try to sell you to make you feel like less. Be smart, be thoughtful and be generous"
Oh my word! I think it's a comfort thing. When I was little, I was convinced that my cousin's ceiling fan shadow was a witch coming to pull off my nose. Ever since then, the fear is gone, but my blanket is up over my nose.