If everyone else is telling you “yes” but your gut is telling you otherwise, it’s usually for a good reason. When faced with difficult decisions, seek out all the information you can find, become as knowledgeable as you possibly can, and then listen to your God-given instincts. Believe in yourself. Know that trusting your intuition is equivalent to trusting your true self. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/09/07/10-toxic-behaviors-that-kill-your-confidence/
You have to love every decision you make in life. Even the small ones. One day you will wake up and look back on your life. I don't want to look back and say, what if, had I, if I only, I regret.... I want to be able and say I did everything I wanted, and got the life I strived for. I will be able to say I have no regrets. That's a damn good feeling.
At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them.