I caught myself doing this recently then stopped myself. The minute you feel the need to defend yourself to someone that "loves" you because of them putting you down...DON'T. Walk away. The iOS 7 update has this awesome feature that let's you easily block any contact's number and ultimately erasing them from your life. Done.
When they aren't listening, don't care, or have already made up their mind, let your silence let them know that you will not waste your time on someone who doesn't care and is not worth your time and caring. Love yourself enough to know that it is not you who needs to explain or "fix" it. You are okay and worth more than that.
so I do... I was always very special, surely often I played my rule to be what they want me to be..but not irritation for what I´m doing...that´s the difference...sometimes I´m wondering to myself, where I got this big trust/faith in you...it doesn´t matter what you do...my love keep staying...don´t ask me why!!