A major road block for many couples recovering from infidelity is talking about the infidelity. Frequently one (the betrayed) spouse needs to talk about the infidelity. The cheating spouse says, No. Its over. Lets not drag up the past. Lets move on.
Stay close. Stay safe. Stay Strong. Closeness never happens without purposing to be close. If we are instructed to take action and draw near to God, isnt it logical that to have a close relationship with our spouse, we need to take action to draw near to him/her? Our real priorities are what we value with our time. Five Powerful Precautions for Faithfulness in Marriage by Matthew L. Jacobson
Best way to keep cheating fresh: 1. Focus on spouse label her evil even if you have to make lies up about her. This will make you feel justified allow you to make the victim look like the abuser which will take you far. 2. Use vague spiritual talk to make yourself sound righteous. 3. Coat with self help chat so you sound wise even though you broke the healthy standards at home with your real family time time again. After all, you have a whole new crowd to bow down to your ego. - Scary.