Once you have truly felt the pain of your past and accepted the feeling that makes you think you can't hold on anymore you can then feel that tiny shred of strength to pick yourself and move on. Don't revisit it, don't use it as an excuse. Just move on.
“Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t...
The Twitter Highlights of Foursquare CEO's Where 2.0 Talk
"There are two rules on the street," Lexi told him. "Number one: never give out all the information." "And number two?" Jason asked expectantly. Lexi gave him a pointed look. Finally understanding dawned on his face.