The problem solving wheel provides the child with a method of self-regulating their emotions. The problem solving wheel has a variety of options that the child can choose in order to self-regulate and cope from a task, activity, or difficult situation.
Sadness…u don't love me huh? You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe she was good for your ego. Or, or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life but you didn't love her. Because you don't destroy people you love.