It is so freeing, so much FUN, to be with people who are positive about you. When the people who matter to you seem bored, angry or unhappy in your presence, it's hard to feel good about yourself. Duh.....when did I quit knowing that?
We live in a society where it has become socially acceptable to not follow through with commitments. If we don't "feel" like doing something we just don't do it, but feelings are often unreasonable and childish. When you make a commitment, make sure you follow through; its called integrity.