You can't change your situation but you can change your attitude in how you decide to see it and take the actions from there that's beneficial. Choose to be positive, find strength, be the better person. Be the better you.
I can tell you a lot about her. She’s someone with a huge heart. She will bend over backwards and fold herself in half helping out someone if she can do anything. Her loyalty to the ones that mean something to her is unheard of nowadays.