Take yoga classes, get fit and strong from it(in mind, body and spirit!) but small steps at a time. First off accomplish a yoga headstand. A large collection of photos of beautiful girls on the beach, in the car, in the countryside.
By traveling the world, you will really open your eyes to everything there is to see on this Earth. Your mind will become open to new ideas due to the unique experiences you will undergo that are different from your normal routine. Nature will be all around you, becoming your best friend. You will escape your comfort zone and because of this, will become a transcendentalist in today's modern world.
The beauty of a flick on your couch: plush seating, you can hit pause, no one is kicking the back of your seat, and the snacks are way cheaper. Get your guy's favorite movie treats, or theme your nibbles based on the movie. Shh! Silence your cell phones so you're not distracted.