It's when others are unlovable that they need love the most. Die to your pride and give them better than they deserve (grace) in the midst of being wronged. It's a test, definitely. But God is faithful to see us through it. Just look to Him to do so.
yeah, after a hard, long day, it's what always jolts me: Grace isn’t a mere Pollyanna feeling. It’s a *force* -- powerful force. As startling as the power of electricity. Grace always shocks. Grace always stuns. And Grace is always what we need. It’s there for everyone groping around in the dark: *Turn toward Grace -- & you always turn on all the lights.*