I read a quote "Imagine what your living room will be like in 20 years when all the kids have moved out. No stray socks, board games that weren't quite put away, books that you've read together left on the side table" Imagine how that makes you feel.
"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. People may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway...For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway."