"Even house work done incorrectly still blesses your family." -- FLY Lady Mentors (Finally Loving Yourself) is a great program if the only thing wrong in your life is that your house is not fit for company. If it feels like everything is wrong, it can be overwhelming. But maybe make a spreadsheet grid with columns for each thing wrong and put a baby step in each cell? Baby steps, milestone goals, and loving accountability will get you to a feeling of accomplishment.