Gum does not belong in the Church, nor do flip flops, short shorts, strapless tops (i am sorry this includes wedding gowns), tees with bra showing, AC/DC and other demonic graphics...I see all these things and more. It insults our Lord....how can we stop it? And as for the wedding dresses, I am sorry but modesty and love of God must be first. A woman should not bare her shoulders in Church. And it is not just the kids doing it either.