信任就像一张纸，皱了，即使抚平， 也恢复不了原样了！ 不要去欺骗别人，因为你能骗到的人， 都是相信你的人… Trust is like a piece of paper, no matter what you do, you can never even the creases. Don't lie to others, cos the person whom you managed to lie to, is the one who trusted you the most.
Facing your mistakes/weaknesses is not easy. Realising them and make a sincere apology and most importantly never (ever) repeat it again. Have the courage to see and admit where you were wrong, your sincerity will be heard.
We are driven by self-interest, it’s necessary to survive. But we need wise self-interest that is generous and co-operative, taking others’ interests into account. Co-operation comes from friendship, friendship comes from trust, and trust comes from kind-heartedness. Once you have a genuine sense of concern for others, there’s no room for cheating, bullying or exploitation. If you have cheated, bullied or exploited others, apologise sincerely and never to repeat your mistakes again. Never.
人生没有十全十美，如果你发现错了， 就重新改过, 千万不要用一个错误， 去掩盖另一个错误。如果别人不原谅你，不给你一个机会，那你可以自己原谅自己，你已经知道错了并且改过了， 那你已经对得起自己了。Life is not perfect. If you have made a mistake, turn over a new leaf. Don't cover up your mistake with another. If others don't forgive you, they don't give you another chance, forgive yourself. Most importantly, you know you have made a mistake and you have amended your way and not to do it again/
逃避不一定躲得过，面对不一定最难受； 孤单不一定不快乐，得到不一定能长久； 失去不一定不再有，转身不一定最软弱你能找个理由难过，你也一定能找到理由快乐。懂得放下的人找到轻松；懂得遗忘的人找到自由；懂得满足的人找到幸福U might not be able to run away by escaping, facing it might not be difficult;Being alone might not mean unhappiness, having it doesn't mean forever; Losing it might not be forever, turning away doesn't mean weakness; U can find a reason to be sad,u can find a reason to be happy; Those who let go finds it liberating, those who forgets finds freedom, those who r contented finds…
原谅是容易的。 再次信任， 就没那么容易了。 不要去伤害人， 伤害得到的人， 都会变成你的敌人。 不要去欺骗人， 欺骗得到的人， 都是最信任你的人 It is easy to forgive. But to trust again, it is not that easy. Don't hurt others, those that you have hurt, becomes your enemy. Don't deceive/lie (to) others, those that you managed to deceive, are all those who trusted you, the most.
心小了，所有的小事就大了； 心大了，所有的大事都小了； 看淡世事沧桑，内心安然无恙。When your heart is small, all the small matters become big; when your heart becomes big, all the big matters become small. Let go of the matters, you will then find peace in yourself.
和阳光的人在一起，心里就不会晦暗； 和快乐的人在一起，嘴角就常带微笑； 和进取的人在一起，行动就不会落後； 和大方的人在一起，处事就不小气； 和睿智的人在一起，遇事就不迷茫； 和聪明的人在一起，做事就变机敏。 借人之智，完善自己。 学最好的别人，做最好的自己。 ~ 海涛法师 When you are with a sunny person, you will never see darkest; when you are with a happy person, you will always have a smile; when you are with a hardworking person, you will never lose track of your steps to be ahead; when you are with a generous person, you will never handle matters in a petty way; when you are with someone full of…