Sometimes "real" is our desire for a particular and preferred frame of reference to materialize. Our expectations may cause us to spend years believing the frame will be realized only because we once had it and want it again. Real is when we cease to wait for something to frame up. Waiting =/= Living. ~Zest of Life
Yes! I have been teaching my girls this for years (thanks to MY mentor mom yrs. ago) but have never seen it written. I always say...Is it TRUE? Is it NICE? Is it NECESSARY? This quote is pretty close :)
I'm allowed to dislike somebody who hurt me. I'm allowed to say what I want, laugh how I want, do what I want, be who I want, this is my life, and if you don't like it then there's something wrong with yours, not mine.
explore-everywhere: “ this is a question i’ve asked myself countless times as of late. when a situation is stressful and i’m about to let myself freak out, i take a step back and ask myself: “is this situation really going to matter in a year?” if.