Androgynous people are the ultimate confusion for people who only accept societies norms. They break every gender norm possible and make people judge and question them all at once. Androgyny challenges everything we know and are comfortable with.
The Mother lives in London, England. She lives there because she wanted to leave her original home, because she doesn't feel like she's a good mother. So her boyfriend wanted to get a job in London and that's where she went.