Once in a while I need someone to hold my hand and support me .... Whether they be a family member, a friend, loving partner/ spouse. I would like someone just to help me, protect me, comfort & reassure things will work out. Don't you want that too?
It's when others are unlovable that they need love the most. Die to your pride and give them better than they deserve (grace) in the midst of being wronged. It's a test, definitely. But God is faithful to see us through it. Just look to Him to do so.
When you're hurt by someone you love, your first instinct is to think that there's something wrong with you, but then there's this clarity that you're in a better position for having gone through that pain...because now you understand more than you knew before, and they don't.