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    Monty Winters
    Monty Winters
    Monty Winters

    Monty Winters

    Coach · Visionary · Father · Friend · Lover of LIFE

    As if you were on fire from within. The moon lives in the lining of your skin. ~ Pablo Neruda

    Love and respect, changes everything.

    True intimacy is the experience of real acceptance and authentic vulnerability without feeling the need to apologize or fear rejection. The freedom to just be.. And know it's all good.

    A friend is someone who helps you up when you're down. And if they can't.. They lay down beside you and they just listen.

    Forgiveness is freeing yourself from the resentment or pain that this person caused you and enabling feelings of freedom through this understanding that respectful absence can be a form of forgiveness as well. Not everyone whom desires access to your life, your heart, and your spirit are worthy of the access they seek. Protect this access.

    Believe in your dreams.

    The Story of Life - You are writing it as you speak

    One of the most important things we can do in life is to brutally question every single thing we are taught.

    When she transformed into a butterfly, the caterpillars spoke not of her beauty, but of her weirdness. They wanted her to change back into what she always had been. But she had wings.

    You Are In Control - Take Back The Wheel Of How You Feel

    If you trade your authenticity for safety, you may experience the following: Anxiety, depression, eating disorders, addiction, rage, blame, resentment, and inexplicable grief.~ Brené Brown There are too many people who will love you, accept you, and never try to change you.. People who don't and won’t condemn you in the slightest.. For you to waste even one moment of your life anymore worrying about what other people will think..

    The only way love can last a lifetime is if it's unconditional. The truth is this: LOVE is not determined by the one being loved.. But rather by the one choosing to love.

    How you choose to see her should be that of a once blind man witnessing an ocean sunset. How you choose to read her should be that of a book with all of the right answers. How you choose to hold her should be that of embracing someone who only had minutes to live. How you choose to kiss her should be that of a bee tasting nectar for the first time. And how you choose to love her.. Should be that of everything you've told yourself to be patient for.

    Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim. ~ Paulo Coelho

    NOW.. This is your life.