Forgiveness is freeing yourself from the resentment or pain that this person caused you and enabling feelings of freedom through this understanding that respectful absence can be a form of forgiveness as well. Not everyone whom desires access to your life, your heart, and your spirit are worthy of the access they seek. Protect this access.
If you trade your authenticity for safety, you may experience the following: Anxiety, depression, eating disorders, addiction, rage, blame, resentment, and inexplicable grief.~ Brené Brown There are too many people who will love you, accept you, and never try to change you.. People who don't and won’t condemn you in the slightest.. For you to waste even one moment of your life anymore worrying about what other people will think..
How you choose to see her should be that of a once blind man witnessing an ocean sunset. How you choose to read her should be that of a book with all of the right answers. How you choose to hold her should be that of embracing someone who only had minutes to live. How you choose to kiss her should be that of a bee tasting nectar for the first time. And how you choose to love her.. Should be that of everything you've told yourself to be patient for.
Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim. ~ Paulo Coelho