Medical students are taught - "When you hear the sound of hooves, think horses, not zebras." 'Horses' are common ailments, 'zebras' are rare diseases. is a zebra. The problem is that doctors have forgotten that zebras DO exist.
A simple gesture. "Hold my hand". It's the bane of the adolescent child, the goal of young folks looking for love. I say it to you: Hold my hand. Walk with me, in the rain. Let us spend time and get to know each other better.