I keep no secrets from my husband he knows everything about me and is not afraid to let people know we are together. If what u say is true and its secrets then he is lying to everyone because he is ashamed of u and what u stand for. Think about it people know I'm his wife and if you have to hide there is a reason he's ashamed of himself and if u. It's very simple to understand and see.
faith... "Fear is a hollow darkness in the future that reaches back through time to rob our joy now by belittling the sovereign goodness of God. But if we are in Christ, if we cling to him by faith, we don’t have to be afraid."- John Piper