Have you ever been accused of being fake simply because you were nice to someone you dont like or who doesnt like you? Why do some people expect us to be nice ONLY to the people who we like and the people who are nice to us? I guess it doesnt occur to them that some of us love ourselves enough to NOT spend our days holding grudges and drowning in negative thoughts and emotions. Any anger, resentment and grudges against others will also hurt us. Its that simple.