The Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that's not the one. When you meet. ~ Monica Drake In this case, I'm pretty sure I've met my soul mate.
An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it's going to launch you into something great. So, just focus, and keep aiming. ":O) makes me wanna get an arrow tattoo