It sucks, and it gets better, but it always sucks again. But I'll help you through it all and make the better times seem like the most amazing things ever. And then when it sucks again, I'll remind you of those times so we can trudge through it together.
Either something is the way you want it to be now or its not. Hanging on and hoping it will change into what you want is trying to change someone.Thats not love. I'm actively choosing to swim for my destination, meet my truth face to face, and not drown.