Dreams should be about the fun stuff: flying, winning the lottery, having magical powers that do all the housework for you, etc. So stop dreaming about a beautiful bedroom and make it a reality. From headboards and nightstands
How to Speak Your Spouse's Love Language (and What to Avoid) - Fierce Marriage. My top 2 are "words of affirmation" and "quality time". I'm assuming my husband is "acts of service" and "physical touch".