calcination (n.) the stage in our lives when we start seeing the tricks, illusions, misleading beliefs, and harmful habits of our egos and put them aside so that we can finally explore what lies underneath.
What is the difference between "I like you" and "I love you"? Beautifully answered by Buddha. When you like a flower, you just pluck it. But when you love a flower, you water it daily. One who understands this, understands life.
If you have trouble visualizing, just feel what you want. Feeling is equally powerful. Whether you feel it, or imagine it in pictures, both are creating. You will know which one works best for you, by how you feel. Feeling good is the key to creation.
You ARE the Universe.You are not IN the Universe, you ARE the Universe; An intrinsic part of it. Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the Universe is becoming conscious of itself. What an amazing miracle.