your husband should ALWAYS come first before your kids, your parents, friends, work, etc. He is second ONLY to God. Your kids will grow up and leave you for their wife/husband, and you'll fall behind them...your spouse is with you "till death do us part".
I quit my job, we went on vacation, I got a tan and you proposed. I will always remember that trip and how it changed our lives. This was the saying I saw on a shirt there and it summed up our trip perfectly. Happily married 3 years later. Love you Robb