Kylee the best example of this. She has overcome so many fears as she grows. She not only lifts other girls above her head (cheerleading), but she overcame her fear of flying (in cheer stunts), and has grown so much as a person.
Period, which is why people embrace a 'good guy' religion figure, then make excuses for her/him...he gave an answer (to prayer) and it was 'No!' - it wasn't his will, ya-da-ya-da...no responsibility...kicking the excuse can down the road of life!