Your job is just a job. Drama between friends and family will eventually subside. Problems related to your self worth such as appearance, weight, money, and status are all things that you can change if you're unhappy with your current situation. But stress and worry only inhibit progress. Be mindful of situations that do not deserve your attention or energy. Choose to be in control of your inner peace, because no one can take that away from you.
Family is and will always be the people who stand with you when the whole world has turned its back on you. And let's face it, that's not always a blood relative. Sometimes, the blood relative is the one turning their back or stabbing you in yours! I need people, blood relative or not, who have my back and can stand with me at ALL times, good and bad!
Not telling her (NOT Me) something or withholding where you have been or where you are going is the same thing as lying... I don't understand why she would have expected him to be honest and loyal to her, he was married when they started their relationship. Oh I know why because she lives in La La Land with her soul mate! HUH! STUPID STUPID Girl!!!!