Chinyo-Ni said, "A hundred gourds: yet they have all untwined out of a single creeper's seed of mind." And if that's not enough to make you dizzy, all that stuff about stealing hearts is what the hogs wash with. Love is never stolen and never steals. I adore you, you know.
Resources on Developing Resilience, Grit, and Growth Mindset
Resilience and Grit: Resource Roundup - Edutopia's curated collection of blogs, articles, interviews, and videos with information for parents and educators about the associated concepts of resilience and grit.