Rewarding kids with things they get to do instead of things they get to have. When they do something good, they pick from the jar and get things like to stay up a little later or play outside a little longer etc.
grandmama & grandson date... Take him thrifting to find an electronic to tear apart, just like most boys have always wanted to do. Let him go crazy in trying to get into it! Read the blog link to see more about the date. :) THIS, is a great idea!