Have ADHD? You're NOT lazy. You are NOT stupid or crazy. Promise. "People with ADHD make decisions based on different criteria than importance and consequences. Interest, Challenge, Novelty, and Urgency are how WE get things done.
ADHDers experience life more intensely than neurotypicals. The ADHD nervous system wants to be engaged in something interesting and challenging. Attention is never "deficit." It's always excessive, constantly occupied with internal engagements.