God speaks softly to our hearts and if we never spend quiet time with Him, it is impossible for us to know God's plans, warnings and blessings. Make a habit of spending time with our Lord in the morning and evening. It will change your life and the lives of all you love.
What screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it's supposed to be. For more quotes and inspirations: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/what-screws-most-life-the-picture.html?ref=ppt10