Sometimes "real" is our desire for a particular and preferred frame of reference to materialize. Our expectations may cause us to spend years believing the frame will be realized only because we once had it and want it again. Real is when we cease to wait for something to frame up. Waiting =/= Living. ~Zest of Life
"So this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad, and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be." I have never read the book nor seen the movie The Perks of Being a Wallflower, but I'm sure that's about to change, for I certainly have fallen in love with some of its quotes.