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it is NOT ok let someone suck the life right out of you. true story: i was struggling with someone who was doing just that for over a year and i had a dream God spoke to me and said "This is not your problem." That was all He said. It was for "that person" to figure out. immediately when i awoke, my weight was lifted and i let go of that person in my life. i wish her the best but now i realize her problems are not my own. every person is responsible for their own life.